The Preciousness of Time (Part 4)

"Time is very precious, because when it is past, it cannot be recovered. There are many things which men possess, which if they part with, they can obtain them again. If a man have parted with something which he had, not knowing the worth of it, or the need he should have of it; he often can regain it, at least with pains and cost. If a man have overseen in a bargain, and have bartered away or sold something, and afterwards repent of it, he may often obtain a release, and recover what he had parted with.—But it is not so with respect to time; when once it is gone, it is gone for ever; no pains, no cost will recover it. Though we repent ever so much that we let it pass, and did not improve it while we had it, it will be to no purpose. Every part of it is successively offered to us, that we may choose whether we will make it our own, or not. But there is no delay; it will not wait upon us to see whether or no we will comply with the offer. But if we refuse, it is immediately taken away, and never offered more. As to that part of time which is gone, however we have neglected to improve it, it is out of our possession and out of our reach."

Present Heaven vs.Eternal Heaven

I had the privilege of preaching from Revelations 21:1-4 today. It’s a text that I’ve been longing to preach from lately. It’s a text that reminds me to be more mindful of what the Father had to sacrifice (i.e., His Son), what the Son had to endure (i.e., the cross), and what the Holy Spirit accomplished in me (i.e., regeneration and illumination) to make the promise of Revelations 21:1-4 and its context an exciting reality for this sinner. It’s a text that leaves me speechless, for its profound encouragement and humbling effect. It’s truly a wonder that I constantly fail to love my God who is and will ever be so merciful to me.

The following is an article entitled “Intermediate (Present) Heaven vs. Eternal Heaven” by Randy Alcorn from Eternal Perspective Ministries. He describes the distinction between the present heaven and the eternal heaven, something that I didn’t touch upon in my sermon. It’s a good read. Here it is:
"When a Christian dies, he or she enters into what theologians call the intermediate state, a transitional period between our past lives on Earth and our future resurrection to life on the New Earth. Usually when we refer to "Heaven," we mean the place that Christians go when they die. When we tell our children "Grandma's now in Heaven," we're referring to the intermediate Heaven.

By definition, an intermediate state or location is temporary. Life in the Heaven we go to when we die, where we'll dwell prior to our bodily resurrection, is "better by far" than living here on Earth under the Curse, away from the direct presence of God (Philippians 1:23). Still, the intermediate Heaven is not our final destination. Though it will be a wonderful place, the intermediate Heaven is not the place we are made for. It's not the place God promises to refashion for us to live in forever.

God's children are destined for life as resurrected beings on a resurrected Earth. We must not lose sight of our true destination. If we do, we'll be confused and disoriented in our thinking about where, and in what form, we will spend eternity.Will we live in Heaven forever? The answer to the question depends on what we mean by Heaven. Will we be with the Lord forever? Absolutely. Since Heaven is where God dwells, we'll always be in Heaven. But will we always be with God in exactly the same place that Heaven is now? No. In the intermediate Heaven, we'll be in Christ's presence, and we'll be joyful, but we'll be looking forward to our bodily resurrection and permanent relocation to the New Earth.

It bears repeating because it is so commonly misunderstood: When we die, believers in Christ will not go to the Heaven where we'll live forever. Instead, we'll go to an intermediate Heaven. In the intermediate Heaven, we'll await the time of Christ's return to the earth, our bodily resurrection, the final judgment, and the creation of the new heavens and New Earth. If we fail to grasp this truth, we will fail to understand the biblical doctrine of Heaven. Everything hinges on the resurrection. God does not abandon our bodies, nor does he abandon the earth itself.

It may seem strange to say that the Heaven we go to at death isn't eternal, yet it's true. "Christians often talk about living with God 'in heaven' forever," Grudem writes. "But in fact the biblical teaching is richer than that: it tells us that there will be new heavens and a new earth—an entirely renewed creation—and we will live with God there....There will also be a new kind of unification of heaven and earth....There will be a joining of heaven and earth in this new creation."

Let me suggest an imperfect analogy to illustrate the difference between the intermediate Heaven and the eternal Heaven. Suppose you lived in a homeless shelter in Miami. One day you inherit a beautiful house, fully furnished, on a gorgeous hillside overlooking Santa Barbara, California. With the home comes a wonderful job doing something you've always wanted to do. Not only that, but you'll also be near close family members who moved from Miami many years ago.

On your flight to Santa Barbara, you'll change planes in Dallas, where you'll spend an afternoon. Some other family members, whom you haven't seen in years, will meet you at the Dallas airport and board the plane with you to Santa Barbara. You look forward to seeing them.

Now, when the Miami ticket agent asks you, "Where are you headed?" would you say "Dallas"? No. You would say Santa Barbara, because that's your final destination. If you mentioned Dallas at all, you would only say, "I'm going to Santa Barbara by way of Dallas."

When you talk to your friends in Miami about where you're going to live, would you focus on Dallas? No. You might not even mention Dallas, even though you will be a Dallas-dweller for several hours. Even if you spent a week in Dallas, it wouldn't be your focus. Dallas is just a stop along the way. Your true destination—your new permanent home—is Santa Barbara.

Similarly, the Heaven we will go to when we die, the intermediate Heaven, is a temporary dwelling place, a stop along the way to our final destination: the New Earth.

(Granted, the Dallas analogy breaks down big time, since being with Jesus and reunited with loved ones in the intermediate Heaven will be immeasurably more wonderful, to say the least, than a lay-over in Dallas! But hopefully you get the point.)

Another analogy is more precise but difficult to imagine, because for most of us it's outside our experience. Imagine leaving the homeless shelter in Miami and flying to the intermediate location, Dallas, and then turning around and going back home to your place of origin, which has been completely renovated—a New Miami. In this New Miami, you would no longer live in a homeless shelter, but in a beautiful house in a glorious pollution-free, crime-free, sin-free city. So you would end up living not in a new home, but a radically improved version of your old home.

This is what the Bible promises us—we will live with Christ and each other forever, not in the intermediate Heaven, but on the New Earth, where God—Father, Son (eternally incarnate) and Holy Spirit—will be at home with his people.

Of course, God will no more be confined to the New Earth than He is now confined to the intermediate Heaven. God is everywhere present. But his special dwelling, what he regards as his home (and ours) will be on the New Earth, where He will dwell with His people.

Revelation 21:1-3 is explicit on this point: "Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth....I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God....And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, 'Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God' " (Revelation 21:1-3).

Heaven, God's central dwelling place, will one day be with his resurrected people, on the New Earth."

Why You Should Read Calvin's Institutes in 2009

Here is J. Ligon Duncan's ten reasons why you should read John Calvin's Institutes of the Christian Religion in the year 2009: Click Here!

P.S., Make sure to read the unabridged edition to get the whole effect!

The Preciousness of Time (Part 4)

“Time ought to be esteemed by us very precious, because we are uncertain of its continuance. We know that it is very short, but we know not how short. We know not how little of it remains, whether a year, or several years, or only a month, or a week, or a day. We are every day uncertain whether that day will be the last, or whether we are to have the whole day. There is nothing that experience doth more verify than this.—If a man had but little provision laid up for a journey or a voyage, and at the same time knew that if his provision should fail, he must perish by the way, he would be the more choice of it.—How much more would many men prize their time, if they knew that they had but a few months, or a few days, more to live! And certainly a wise man will prize his time the more, as he knows not but that it will be so as to himself. This is the case with multitudes now in the world, who at present enjoy health, and see not signs of approaching death: many such, no doubt, are to die the next month, many the next week, yea, many probably to-morrow, and some this night; yet these same persons know nothing of it, and perhaps think nothing of it, and neither they nor their neighbors can say that they are more likely soon to be taken out of the world than others. This teaches us how we ought to prize our time, and how careful we ought to be, that we lost none of it.”

Link List Update!

Be sure to check out my link list. While there are hundreds of useful web resources readily available online, I purposely choose five that I believe are most helpful and biblical. Be sure to check out (1) Christian Publication Resource Foundation (CPRF) and (2) Puritan Library under the "Theology Links." After monergism.com, they rank #2 and #3 on my favorite theology sites (in fact, I think they are somehow affiliated with monergism.com).

Also, for those of you who plan to buy toys for your children or nephews and nieces for this Christmas, be sure to check out HealthyToys.org (see under "Xtra Links"): Click Here! It's helpful!

"Saved" Out of Calvinism? Really?

Stalwart Calvinist James White from Alpha & Omega Ministries deals with an interesting question that was posed by a former Calvinist "saved" from Calvinism at the recent John 3:16 Conference (Arminian). It's 22 minutes and 19 seconds long, but I strongly encourage you to watch, listen, and learn. I guarantee you that it'll be time well worth investing in. See it here: Click Here!

The New PDL

Check out new The Porpoise-Driven Life: Click Here! Sadly, this satire's hermeneutical approach to Scripture, or more accurately its lack of it, is not very different from the original PDL and other Christian books similar to it.

John 3:16 Conference Examines Calvinism


Check out this article from Baptist Press: Click Here! It's seems like an Arminian alternative to the Together for the Gospel Conference which is obviously Calvinistic (Note: I am most adamantly opposed to the former and very strongly adhere to the latter). No doubt that these are godly men, but I wonder what they would say about John 3:16 in light of 3:5-8: "Jesus answered, 'Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not be amazed that I said to you, 'You must be born again.' The wind blows where it wishes and you hear the sound of it, but do not know where it comes from and where it is going; so is everyone who is born of the Spirit.'" The basic point is that being born again (AKA, regeneration) precedes belief/faith.

Wayne Grudem writes:
"The idea that regeneration comes before saving faith is not always understood by evangelicals today. Sometimes people will even say something like, 'If you believe in Christ as your Savior, then (after you believe) you will be born again.' But Scripture itself never says anything like that. The new birth is viewed by Scripture as something that God does within us in order to enable us to believe. The reason that evangelicals often think that regeneration comes after saving faith is that they see the results (love for God and his Word, and turning from sin) after people come to faith. Yet here we must decide on the basis of what Scripture tells us, because regeneration itself is not something we see or know about directly: 'The wind blows where it wills, and you hear the sound of it, but you do not know whence it comes or wither it goes; so it is with every one who is born of the Spirit' (John 3:8)" (Systematic Theology, 703).
J.I. Packer writes:
"Infants do not induce, or cooperate in, their own procreation and birth; no more can those who are 'dead in trespasses and sins' prompt the quickening operation of God's Spirit within them (see Eph. 2:1-10). Spiritual vivification is a free, and to man mysterious, exercise of divine power (John 3:8), not explicable in terms of the combination or cultivation of existing human resources (John 3:6), not caused or induced by any human effort (John 1:12-13) or merits (Titus 3:3-7), and not, therefore, to be equated with, or attributed to, any of the experiences, decisions, and acts to which it gives rise and by which it may be known to have taken place" ("Regeneration," in Evangelical Dictionary of Theology, 925).
Robert L. Reymond writes:
"Regeneration is not the replacing of the substance of fallen human nature with another substances, nor simply the change in one or more of the faculties of the fallen spiritual nature, not the perfecting of the fallen spiritual nature. Rather, it is the subconscious implanting of the principle of the new spiritual life in the soul, effecting an instantaneous change in the whole man, intellectually, emotionally, and morally, and enabling the elect sinner to respond in repentance and faith to the outward or public gospel proclamation directed to his conscious understanding and will" (A New Systematic Theology of the Christian Faith, 721-722).
Jesus Christ says:
"No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent me draws him... (John 6:44)."

The Preciousness of Time (Part 3)

Here is part 3 of this series:
2. Time is very short, which is another thing that renders it very precious. The scarcity of any commodity occasions men to set a higher value upon it, especially if it be necessary and they cannot do without it. Thus when Samaria was besieged by the Syrians, and provisions were exceedingly scarce, "an ass's head was sold for fourscore pieces of silver, and the fourth part of a cab of dove's dung for five pieces of silver." 2 Kings vi. 25.—So time is the more to be prized by men, because a whole eternity depends upon it; and yet we have but little of time. "When a few years are come, then I shall go the way whence I shall not return." Job xvi. 22. "My days are swifter than a post. They are passed away as the swift ships; as the eagle that hasteth to the prey." Job ix. 25, 26. "Our life; what is it? it is but a vapour which appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away." Jam. iv. 14. It is but as a moment to eternity. Time is so short, and the work which we have to do in it is so great, that we have none of it to spare. The work which we have to do to prepare for eternity, must be done in time, or it never can be done; and it is found to be a work of great difficulty and labour, and therefore that for which time is the more requisite.

A New President!

Here is a good Christian commentary on the presidential election. Read it from The Riddleblog: Click Here!

The Preciousness of Time (Part 2)

Here is part two of the series, "The Preciousness of Time" (Note: you may not like the older style of writing because it is different or makes the content a bit more difficult to comprehend, in which case I strongly encourage you to read it slowly, chew it, digest it, and repeat the process as necessary):

SECT. I.
Why time is precious.
TIME is precious for the following reasons:
1. Because a happy or miserable eternity depends on the good or ill improvement of it. Things are precious in proportion to their importance, or to the degree wherein they concern our welfare. Men are wont to set the highest value on those things upon which they are sensible their interest chiefly depends. And this renders time so exceedingly precious, because our welfare depends on the improvement of it.—Indeed our welfare in this world depends upon its improvement. If we improve it not, we shall be in danger of coming to poverty and disgrace; but by a good improvement of it, we may obtain those things which will be useful and comfortable. But it above all things precious, as our state through eternity depends upon it. The importance of the improvement of time upon other accounts, is in subordination to this.
God and silver are esteemed precious by men; but they are no worth to any man, only as thereby he has an opportunity of avoiding or removing some evil, or of possessing himself of some good. And the greater the evil is which any man hath advantage to escape, or the good which he hath advantage to obtain, by any thing he possesses, by so much the greater is the value of that thing to him, whatever it be. Thus if a man, by any thing which he hath, may save his life, which he must lose without it, he will look upon that by which he hath the opportunity of escaping so great an evil as death, to be very precious.—Hence is it that time is so exceedingly precious, because by it we have opportunity of escaping everlasting misery, and of obtaining everlasting blessedness and glory. On this depends our escape from an infinite evil, and out attainment of an infinite good.

Sad But True!

I am already going to interject my long series, "The Preciousness of Time," and encourage you to read and watch the following two blog posts from Dr. Voddie Baucham's website. The first one regards the foolishness of some who claim to follow Christ and yet support the Democratic Nominee: Click Here! The second one regards the foolishness of some people as to why they support the same individual: Click Here! Shocking? Perhaps initially. Sad? YES INDEED! Maybe Americans and misinformed (and I use that word very lightly) Christians will get what they deserve.

The Preciousness of Time (Part 1)

If there is one man I'd like to meet and learn from, it's definitely Jonathan Edwards. Having had the opportunity to take The Theology of Jonathan Edwards about a year ago, I came to learn firsthand why he is hailed as America's greatest philosophical theologian (just read his Freedom of the Will), a man of great affections for God (just read his Religious Affections), a man of great resolve (just read his Resolutions), and so much more (just read George M. Marsden's biography, Jonathan Edwards). What also amazed me about Edwards was his almost impeccable use of time and the profound determination he applied to maximizing it. He very faithfully lived by his resolution #41: "Resolved, to ask myself at the end of every day, week, month, and year, wherein I could possibly in any respect have done better." I know that an average man like myself will never become the genius that he was or leave such a deep footprint in both North American and Christian history, but I do long to make the most of my time, and thereby my life, even as he did. This deep spiritual longing of mine is not consistently exercised by this body of mine, however. I also know that I am not the only believer who is battling in this area, if not struggling in it on a daily basis. So, with you and this sinner in mind, I am going to post a long series on the godly use of time from Edward's "The Preciousness of Time" based on Ephesians 5:16 (dated December, 1734). My hope is that it will be of deep help to both you and me. Read, learn, and grow.

THE PRECIOUSNESS OF TIME

AND THE

IMPORTANCE OF REDEEMING IT

EPH. v. 16.
Redeeming the time.
Christians should not only study to improve the opportunities they enjoy, for their own advantage, as those who would make a good bargain; but also labour to reclaim others from thier evil courses; that so God might defer his anger, and time might be redeemed from that terrible destruction, which, when it should come, would put an end to the time of divine patience. And it may be upon this account, that this reason is added, Because the days are evil. As if the apostle had said, the corruption of the times tends to hasten threatened judgments; but your holy and circumspect walk will tend to redeem time from the devouring jaws of those calamities.—However, thus much is certainly held forth to us in the words; viz. That upon time we should set a high value, and be exceeding careful that it be not lost; and we are therefore exhorted to exercise wisdom and circumspection, in order that we may redeem it. And hence it appears, that time is exceedingly precious.

Right Doctrine Necessitates Regard for Church History

What do JWs, Mormons, and many cults who claim to rely on the Bible have in common? Pride! Pride that says, "All I need is the Bible regardless of what a long line of God's servants in the church, post the apostolic age, have and continue to teach." There is no doubt that the Bible should be our priority and the final rule and standard by which all spiritual teachings must be in accord with. Yet, the very process of coming to measure any spiritual teaching in light of God's Word necessitates a serious consideration of how a given spiritual teaching has been taught by the the church. Why? Because the chances of our own private interpretation or understanding of Scripture resulting in accuracy is much more slim than what the church has been teaching for nearly two millenniums. S. Lewis Johnson writes:
"To treat the church's historical understanding of Scripture lightly is to forget that it is the believing body that, through the centuries, carries on the theological enterprise with the Word in hand and accompanied by the enlightening Spirit. Thus, the largest part of any theologian's work comes from reverent consideration and response to the Christian theological tradition. The creeds of the church, the results of serious spiritual and theological strife, are more important than the views of individuals. We should begin our discussion with the assumption that the church is probably right, unless exegetical and theological study compel us otherwise. 'The proclamation of new discoveries,' Abraham Kuyper, the famed founder of the Free University of Amsterdam, wrote, 'is not always a proof of devotion to the truth, it is sometimes a tribute to self-esteem'" ("Role Distinctions in the Church Galtians 3:28" in Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, 164).
Forbid spiritual pride that imagines the Holy Spirit to be working solely in you but fails to realize that He has been in church history, and that rather diligently.

Ignornace of Scripture is No Joking Matter

"Ignorance of scripture is ignorance of Christ." -St. Jerome

I must thank Rick Mansfield for posting this quote on his blog several weeks ago. You can check out his blog here: Click Here! His blog is especially informative when it comes to Bible translations and comparisons, whether you agree with his assessment or not.

Martin Luther on Monergism








Be sure to check out Luther's Rose Web at the bottom of this blog.

The Holiness of God National EXPANDED Conference

Wow! Take a look at the keynote speakers for Ligonier Ministries 2009 National EXPANDED Conference: Thabiti Anyabwile, Alistair Begg, D.A. Carson, Ligon Duncan, Sinclair Ferguson, Robert Godfrey, Steven J. Lawson, Al Mohler, R.C. Sproul, R.C. Sproul Jr., and Derek Thomas. I've never attended a conference with so many gifted teachers, not even at Shepherd's Conference (quantitatively speaking, not qualitatively). They will also be celebrating the great John Calvin's 500th birthday this year. You can read all about it at Ligonier Ministries: Click Here!

This Man is Clearly a Heretic!

Not to sound mean, but Joel Osteen is clearly a heretic. The gospel he preaches is a different gospel, and therefore is no gospel at all. He does not merely preach that one can have his best life now, but blatantly twists the sacrificial work and the cross of Jesus Christ to suit the unregenerate man's desire for the fleshly, the momentary, the here and now. This is not to say that believers are not to enjoy life (1 Peter 3:10-12) or even seek healing from infirmities (James 5:15-18), we should. But the true gospel produces the greatest joy since it delivers one from God's eternal judgment and provides the most necessary miracle from spiritual deadness (not sickness), thereby being the greatest miracle possible (it's more than just healing). This Osteen does not proclaim. He certainly needs prayer for the sake of his soul, unless it is too late (it is damning enough to receive the infinite wrath of God for denying the true gospel but to compound it by misleading millions of people by preaching the same lie is just, well, you know)! Check out this video for evidence: Click Here!

"But even if we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to what we have preached to you, he is to be accursed! As we have said before, so I say again now, if any man is preaching to you a gospel contrary to what you received, he is to be accursed!"
-Galatians 1:8-9

P.S., I must admit that "It's the blood of a champion" saying is a little funny, however (see it @ the 2:34 mark)!

I Believe In Order To Understand

Here is a worthy quote from Anselm of Canterbury, who was a very influential and brilliant medieval theologian. He was most famous for his long essays Monologian and Prosologian. The following is from the latter (Anselm of Canterbury The Major Works, p.87):
"I acknowledge, Lord, and I give thanks that You have created Your image in me, so that I may remember You, think of You, love You. But this image is so effaced and worn away by vice, so darkened by the smoke of sin, that it cannot do what it was made to do unless You renew it and reform it. I do not try, Lord, to attain Your lofty heights, because my undertanding is in no way equal to it. But I do desire to understand Your truth a little, that truth that my heart believes and loves. For I do not seek to understand so that I may believe; but I believe so that I may understand. For I believe this also, that 'unless I believe, I shall not understand [Isa.7:9]" (Emphasis Added).
Is Anselm correct? I certainly think so (see Matthew 16:17)!

Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones on Anger & Self-Control

Check out what Dr. Lloyd-Jones had to say about anger and self-control: Click Here!

Follow Me, and I Will Make You Become Fishers of Men

In the Gospel of Mark 1:17 Jesus states, "Follow Me, and I will make you become fishers of men" (NASB). This saying is very commonly interpreted and taught as a call to evangelism or to be Jesus' evangelizers that believers throughout successive generations are to emulate. At first glance the parallel seems unavoidably obvious: "fishers" is a reference to the "to be" evangelizers (i.e., the disciples) whereas we too are to be such "fishers"; "men" refers to the unregenerate of the then era whereas the unregenrate of today are also such "men." The evangelistic tone is not silent. Yet, could Jesus have meant more than that? Perhaps! Consider the following excerpt from Dr. Kim Riddlebarger's sermon entitled "Repent and Believe" and judge for yourselves (Note: I need to think a bit more about Riddlebarger's exposition but I don't think I've yet to hear or read a clearer explanation of the verse than his):
"But think about this for a minute. Is fishing simply a metaphor for evangelism in the sense of merely telling people about Jesus? When Simon and Andrew cast their nets into to sea and caught fish to feed their families and sell some to others, what happened to the fish they caught? Were the fish saved? Were they invited into the boat? Or is there a sense in which the fish is caught against its will and then inevitably dies under the judgment of the fisherman? Perhaps we ought to rethink this 'I will make you fishers of men' thing a bit! First and foremost, fishing is a judgment motif, not an evangelistic motif! In fact, when Jesus summons these two men to become fishers of men, he is using an Old Testament image found throughout the prophets (Jeremiah 16:16; Ezekiel 29:4 ff; 38:4; Amos 4:2; Hab, 1:14-17). In these passages God is the judge who comes like a fisherman with a net or a hook to catch those who fall under his judgment, which is the fate of the fish we catch (except those of you who are 'catch and release' types). Therefore, when Jesus calls Simon and Andrew to be 'fishers of men,' he’s informing them that their new calling will be like that of their new master who has just summoned them. Simon and Andrew will preach a message which summons men and women to repent. Their preaching comes upon those who hear it like fish are caught in a net. This is not a 'take it or leave it' offer of salvation. This message summons us to repent and believe, just like a net pulls a fish into a boat. Once we hear it, we cannot ignore it. Therefore, all those who hear this message–the good news of God–cannot escape God’s judgment. When we hear the declaration of what God has done to save sinners from that wrath which is to come, we are obligated to respond. All who hear that this is God’s appointed time and that the kingdom has drawn near in the person of Jesus, must now do as Jesus says, 'repent and believe.' Those who are 'caught' through this preaching either die to themselves so that they might live unto God, or else they die under the judgment of God. But there is no sense that you can hear this message and then just walk away as though you had never heard it. You have been summoned. You are caught. You will be judged. This is every bit as inevitable as it is that the fish will die once out of the water. That Jesus calls men to engage in such fishing is yet another sign that the kingdom of God has drawn near. Through the proclamation of the good news, men and women throughout Israel will soon be summoned to repent and believe the gospel that Jesus will proclaim. Those who hear the words of Jesus and his disciples are just like fish caught in a net. God has them in his possession. They come under his judgment. That Jesus has this sovereign power is seen in the reaction of Simon and Andrew to Jesus’ call. Mark simply tells us in verse 18, 'At once [Simon and Andrew] left their nets and followed him.' Simon and Andrew are still fishermen, only they no longer fish for fish. Now they fish for men and women. Jesus has other disciples to call as well. As we read in verses 19-20, 'When he had gone a little farther, he saw James son of Zebedee and his brother John in a boat, preparing their nets. Without delay he called them, and they left their father Zebedee in the boat with the hired men and followed him.' Those whom Jesus calls, do not resist. They follow their master because they have been summoned. Because God’s time has come and the kingdom has drawn near, Jesus now calls his disciples to follow him. This call to be fishers of men is not some impersonal plea to 'follow Jesus.' It is a direct summons by God himself, addressed to these particular men by that one in whom the kingdom draws near and through whom God fishes for men and woman. Cranfield puts it this way, Jesus’ 'word lays hold on men’s lives and asserts his right to their whole-hearted and total allegiance, a right that takes priority even over kinship.' This is what happened to Simon and Andrews and to James and John. It is what is happening here this morning. That time has come for you to repent and believe."

Dr. Voddie Baucham Tells It Like It Is

Check out Dr. Voddie Baucham's biblical assessment of women in office (yes, including Governor Sarah Palin). Read it from Reformed Baptist Blog: Click Here!

Note: What Dr. Baucham advocates is not "sexism" as the world would deem or "patriarchalism" as some evangelical egalitarians would argue, but rather is an excellent and bold example of biblical fidelity. By inference, his biblical fidelity would translate into the honoring of the female sex, which bears the very imago dei. Biblical fidelity would allow for no other conclusion than such. After you watch the two Christians, you tell me who you think is exercising biblical fidelity, the one who takes the text at its face value (Baucham) or the other who seeks a meaning beyond the plain meaning (Margaret Feinberg).

On another but related note, if you have been struggling with the the whole Judge Deborah issue, that is, how or why God allowed her to function as a "leader" (or so many people think ala the CNN lady), check out Wayne Grudem's Evangelical Feminism & Biblical Truth, pp.131-136.

Christless Christianity: An Oxymoron But A Reality

One of my favorite radio programs is the White Horse Inn (WHI) hosted by Dr. Michael Horton (Westminster Seminary, Cal) along with Ken Jones (Greater Union Baptist Church), Dr. Kim Riddlebarger (Christ Reformed Church in Anaheim), and Rod Rosenbladt (Concordia University). You may or may not agree with every nuance of their theology, but I deeply admire them for their consistent emphasis on the centrality of the person of Christ and the Gospel of Christ, as well as for keeping aflame the Protestant Reformation's recovery of the apostolic doctrine of justification by faith alone in Christ alone. I can honestly say that their ministry continues to help me appreciate the Savior more, though I humbly acknowledge how far and frequent I fall short of loving and obeying Him who is infinitely worthy of my devotion. I can't express just how much I love the WHI!

With that said, I strongly encourage you to check out the following resources available through this ministry:

1. Dr. Horton on Christless Christianity: Click Here!

2. Dr. Horton Interviews Dr. R.C. Sproul concerning Christless Christianity: Click Here!

I hope you find these resources helpful.

Woe To You & I... Hypocrites!

Here is an excerpt from Mark Driscoll's sermon that you and I need to hear, desperately (Click Hear to Listen). I very highly encourage you to sacrifice 9 minutes and 4 seconds of your precious time to listen, learn, repent as necessary and be warned. Afterwards, cling solely to the cross of Jesus Christ and find rest, rather than in your religious achievements and exercises. I think such would be the appropriate application.

Amazing Grace, An Amazing DVD

Are you a collector of worthy DVDs? Are you in need of attaining a comprehensive understanding of sovereign election in layman terminology? Are you wanting to sharpen or do you need to refresh up on your soteriology? Are you hesitant to affirm the biblical doctrine of Calvinism (Yes, all Five Points)? Are you striving against the clear teaching of Romans 9 which debunks Arminianism? If so, then you must purchase the DVD, Amazing Grace. I actually used this DVD (as a supplement) to teach the "5 Points of Calvinism" to an undergraduate theology class at Biola University last semester, and it was quite helpful. I thoroughly enjoyed it and very highly recommned it!

Buy it here for half the price: Click Here!

Thomas Aquinas Answers, "Whether God Loves All Things Equally?"

"I answer that, Since to love a thing is to will it good, in a twofold way anything may be loved more, or less. In one way on the part of the act of the will itself, which is more or less intense. In this way God does not love some things more than others, because He loves all things by an act of the will that is one, simple, and always the same. In another way on the part of the good itself that a person wills for the beloved. In this way we are said to love that one more than another, for whom we will a greater good, though our will is not more intense. In this way we must needs be say that God loves some things more than others... God loves Christ not only more than He loves the whole human race, but more than He loves the entire created universe: because He willed for Him the greater good in giving Him a name that is above all names, in so far as He was true God. ... God loves the human nature assumed by the Word of God in the person of Christ more than He loves all the angels; for that nature is better, especially on the ground of union with the Godhead" (Bold Emphasis Added).
-Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica, Q.20, Art.3 &4, Pt.1

MJ Shatters Backboard

I apologize for posting too many basketball posts, but this one you gotta see. I saw this not too while ago and thought I share it with you who are basketball fans. I never knew MJ did this. What else is amazing is where he jumps from TWO FOOTED (See It Here!).

Yes, He is the Best PF (No, I Am Not Biased)

I couldn't agree more with this assessment, that TD is still the best PF in the league (though in my opinion, ever). Not too sure about Stoudamire being #2, however. Here is an excerpt from the article:

"Tim Duncan is 32, has played 11 NBA seasons and has participated in more than 150 playoff games. He is clearly on the downside of his career. Still, when you get right down to it, is there any other player you'd rather have playing power forward? Kevin Garnett and Amare Stoudemire have to be in that discussion. But something doesn't feel right if a 'best of' or 'top 10' list doesn't have Duncan's name at the top. Yes, Garnett is coming off a title. Stoudemire is the best young '4' in the NBA. Even so, it's Duncan atop the leaderboard. One more thing: If you put Duncan on the 2007-08 Celtics instead of Garnett, Boston still wins the title."

You can read the entire article @ CBSSports (Click Here!)

A Good Advice, Especially for Those Prone to Dogmaticism

"I would simple plead for the application of that great principle of good criticism: Before assessing an author's position, express an understanding of it in a way the author would approve."

-John Piper in "A Vision of Biblical Complementarity" in Recovering Biblical Manhood & Womanhood, p.35

Watch These Videos Concerning Calvinism

Long time no posting. I've considered shutting down my blog for sometime now mainly because of my lack of consistent posting, which I am still contemplating. But if I can begin again to post consistently and minister to my low readership (yes, all two or three of you) even in the least significant way, whether it be with practical or even theological matters, then perhaps I might leave it up (note: I'm sure that no one is enjoying my Shawn Kemp and SA Spurs postings, however). With that said, here are two videos concerning Calvinism that I think should be of help to you. The first is between Dr. James R. White and George Bryson (View It Here!) and the second is Dr. White's closing argument (View It Here!). I trust that your Calvinist stance, which is the biblical stance, will be strengthened.

P.S. Hope you like the new layout.

Man, I Wish He Was Still Playing

Check out this recent interview with Shawn Kemp: View It Here!

P.S. Check out the Shawn Kemp video on my sidebar.

Interesting Pictures of Johnny Mac & Friends

Check out these pictures. I'm sure you'll like them. The first is Johnny Mac the footballa'.


Next is know as "T4G Second String Speakers" (Credit: The Pilgrims Blogress Blog).


The last is just a picture of one fortunate man, that is, the man on the left-the left of MacArthur to be exact.


Hope you enjoyed them!

Fake Fireworks?

If you are following the Olympics, and especially were in awe of the opening ceremony, you will find this piece interesting (Click Here).

May God Raise More Men and Women As Such

Here is an excerpt from John Piper's sermon "Holy Women Who Hoped in God" (Listen to or Download the Entire Sermon Here) that I think you'll enjoy. Read, learn, and grow!
"Let me try to illustrate what I think submission is by referring to my own mother and father (and if we had time, I believe I could show from Scripture that this illustration is a biblical model not a merely cultural one). I grew up in a home where my father was away for about two-thirds of each year. He is an evangelist. He held about 25 crusades each year ranging in length from one to three weeks. He would leave on Saturday, be gone for one to three weeks, and come home on Monday afternoon. I went to the Greenville airport hundreds of times. And some of the sweetest memories of my childhood are the smile of my father's face as he came out of the plane and down the steps and almost ran across the runway to hug me. This means that my sister and I were reared and trained mostly by my mother. She taught me almost everything practical that I know. She taught me how to cut the grass and keep a check book and ride a bike and drive a car and make notes for a speech and set the table and make pancakes. She paid the bills, handled repairs, cleaned house, cooked meals, helped me with my homework, took us to church, led us in devotions. She was superintendent of the Intermediate department at church, head of the community garden club, and tireless doer of good for others. She was incredibly strong in her loneliness. The early sixties were the days in Greenville, SC, when civil rights were in the air. The church took a vote one Wednesday night on a resolution not to allow black people to worship in the church. When the vote was taken, she stood entirely alone in opposition. And when my sister was married in the church in 1963 and one of the ushers tried to seat some black friends of our family all alone in the balcony, my mother indignantly marched out of the sanctuary and sat them herself on the main floor with everyone else. I have never known anyone quite like Ruth Piper. She seemed to me omni-competent and overflowing with love and energy. But here is my point. When my father came home, my mother had the extraordinary ability and biblical wisdom and humility to honor him as the head of the home. She was, in the best sense of the word, submissive to him. It was an amazing thing to watch week after week as my father came and went. He went, and my mother ruled the whole house with a firm and competent and loving hand. And he came, and my mother deferred to his leadership. Now it was he that prayed at the meals. Now it was he that led in devotions. Now it was he that drove us to worship, and watched over us in the pew, and answered our questions. My fear of disobedience shifted from my mother's wrath to my father's, for there, too, he took the lead. But I never heard my father attack my mother or put her down in any way. They sang together and laughed together and put their heads together to bring each other up-to-date on the state of the family. It was a gift of God that I could never begin to pay for or earn. And here is what I learned—a biblical truth before I knew it was in the Bible. There is no correlation between submission and incompetence. There is such a thing as masculine leadership that does not demean a wife. There is such thing as submission that is not weak or mindless or manipulative. It never entered my mind until I began to hear feminist rhetoric in the late sixties that this beautiful design in my home was somehow owing to anyone's inferiority. It wasn't. It was owing to this: my mother and my father put their hope in God and believed that obedience to his Word would create the best of all possible families—and it did. So I exhort you with all my heart this morning, consider these things with great seriousness and do not let the world squeeze you into its mold."

Preach the Word Conference

Here is an interesting conference consisting of Calvinists, Semi-Pelagians, and Baptists (See It Here!). Be sure to check out the speaker bios, as well as the schedule. I know that these godly men are all friends, but the Q&A with MacArthur, Swindoll, Laurie, and Graham looks most intriguing, particularly due to their theological differences. It's actually quite encouraging!

Cool Video: Did He Really Say What I Think He Said?

Here is what televangelist and founder-president of TBN ("The Blas..." I mean "Trinity Broadcasting Network) Paul Crouch said about John MacArthur (See It Here). You'll be pretty surprised!

Great Quote: "Christianity" vs. "Radical Christianity"

“I remember one of the students saying how incredible it was to him that Christianity could be viewed by many students as a belief-system that could be added onto their present lives with little change. Studies remained pretty much the same. Leisure remained pretty much the same. Use of money remained pretty much the same. Goals after graduation remained pretty much the same. Students simply said, ‘I can believe that,’ and added it on to what they were already committed to. It didn't seem to make a difference. One of the reasons I use the word ‘radical’ as often as I do to describe the kind of Christianity that I am pursuing is that I need some kind of language to differentiate the real thing from this ‘add on’ kind of Christianity that is not real and confuses thousands about what the real thing is. Radical Christianity, real Christianity, makes a difference” (Emphases Added).
-John Piper

Source: "How to Suffer for Doing What is Right" (Listen or Read or Download It from DGM: Click Here!)

30 Practical Ways for Pastors to Love Their Wives & Families

Here’s a great read from IXMarks Ministries on being a godly husband and father not necessarily to be limited to just full-time pastors and missionaries. It also applies to part-time intern-pastors such as myself, although I very strongly yearn to be a full-time one-day, chemists, cooks, doctors, engineers, janitors, lawyers, mailmen, pharmacists, police officers, professors, teachers, and even future husbands and fathers. Read it, be convicted by it, be exposed of your shortcomings, be thankful for your godly and patient wife, be humbled by the fact that you sin against your child or children even as he/she or they do against you (and they’re probably not even regenerated), rejoice that you are still Christ’s nevertheless, then pray and resolve to grow by His persistent grace. Man, I would give up on the San Antonio Spurs to be this type of a husband and father. Here is the read:

30 Practical Ways For Pastors to Love Their Wives & Families
Compiled by several pastors

The demands of pastoral ministry can be tough on the pastor’s wife and family. Not only do they tempt him to neglect his family, they can leave him void of good, creative, meaningful ideas on how to love and serve them.

Pastor, we cannot help you with the temptation to neglect them, other than exhort you to flee this temptation—Christ hasn’t neglected you, has he?! But perhaps we can help you with several practical ideas to help motivate you to love and serve your wife and children more effectively. Here they are:

    IN RELATION TO YOUR FAMILY...

  1. Take the initiative and establish a plan for family worship. Then follow the plan! (Don Whitney encourages “brevity, regularity, and flexibility” in family worship.)

  2. Come home at the exact time you say you will be home; and prepare your heart to serve your family, not be served.

  3. Take responsibility for your children’s education and discipline—don’t leave it to your wife to figure out.

  4. Share with your wife and kids some of the good things that are going on in the church, and then thank them for helping to make that possible.

  5. Use every hour of your vacation time. And take a vacation that does not involve extended family; restrict it to just your wife and kids.

  6. Take a two week vacation.

  7. Diligently guard your days off.

  8. There are times when it seems like you have to choose whether to be a good dad/husband or a good pastor. Good pastors choose to be good dad/husbands.

    IN RELATION TO YOUR WIFE…

  9. Get up early and have your quiet time, so that you can take the kids in the morning while your wife has her quiet time.

  10. Give her flowers and a hand written card when she least expects it.

  11. Regularly schedule a date night and take the initiative on logistics, i.e. organize the baby-sitter, make reservations, and have a plan.

  12. Make sure you know her favorite restaurant, meal, flowers, ice cream flavor, and movie.

  13. Schedule a weekly time where you watch the kids and your wife gets out to do whatever she wants—not errands. When you can, give her a whole day off from the kids.

  14. Decide together with your wife how many evenings you will be gone and honor what has been agreed upon.

  15. On Sundays, leave for church a few minutes early to stop and get your wife her favorite coffee drink.

  16. Ask your wife over a romantic dinner areas she wants to see you improve.

  17. Take your wife to an encouraging conference.

  18. Plan regular out-of-town personal retreats for just you and her. Plan time on your retreat to write down all the evidences of grace you see in one another’s lives and then share them with one another. Later, spend time writing down your hopes for ways you want to grow as husband and father over the coming year (she doing the same for herself) and then share them with one another.

  19. Respect and seek her opinion on things concerning the church.

  20. Go for long walks.

    IN RELATION TO YOUR CHILDREN…

  21. Have deliberate one-on-one time weekly with each of your children, probably to include playing, reading scripture, or praying.

  22. Date your daughters.

  23. Leave the church at church so dad can be dad at home.

  24. Take a child with you on visits or short term trips.

  25. Ask your children questions that allow you to shepherd their hearts, such as these (these questions were posted by Justin Taylor, and were originally devised by Pastor Rich Gamache of Sovereign Grace Fellowship)

    • In your own words, what is the gospel?
    • Is there a specific sin you’re aware of that you need my help defeating?
    • Are you more aware of my encouragement or my criticism?
    • What’s daddy most passionate about?
    • Do I act the same at church as I do when I’m at home?
    • Are you aware of my love for you?
    • Is there any way I’ve sinned against you that I’ve not repented of?
    • Do you have any observations for me?
    • How am I doing as a dad?
    • How have Sunday’s sermons impacted you?
    • Does my relationship with mom make you excited to be married?
    • (On top of these things, with my older kids, I’m always inquiring about their relationship with their friends and making sure God and his gospel are the center of those relationship. And I look for every opportunity to praise their mother and increase their appreciation and love for her.)
  26. Take an interest in what your children enjoy doing.

  27. Read to them. Buy books they will enjoy. Take them to the library.

  28. Sing with them.

  29. Pray for them and with them.

  30. Be careful not to put them in the spotlight at church (stop using them for every other sermon illustration!).

Contributors (all pastors): Bret Capranica (San Jacinto, CA), Brian Croft (Louisville, KY), Bob Johnson (Roseville, MI), Michael Lawrence (Washington, DC), Mike McKinley (Sterling, VA), Deepak Reju (Washington, DC), and Jeramie Rinne (Hingham, MA)

One Man's Plea for Understanding: Justification by Faith Alone

Here is Dr. C. Matthew McMahon's (from www.apuritansmind.com) exhortation for the church to call attention to the cornerstone of the Christian faith: Justification by Faith Alone!


Justification by Faith Alone: A Plea for Understanding
by Dr. C. Matthew McMahon

Most of the 21st century church despises doctrine. They simply hate to learn. They would much rather “feel” their way through a church service than listen to sound preaching. It may not necessarily be that they hate to learn, as if everyone hated such a thing (something they engage in every moment of every day) but surely their disability to think properly lends to their incapability to sit through a preaching service of two hours. (And such a length of time was not uncommon in the puritan era – as a matter of fact, many were just getting started at that point.) I suppose that it would be politically correct to say they are “mentally challenged.” We often use this phrase as a joke, but when it concerns the everlasting abode of the never dying soul and the theology they believe, then it is no laughing matter. This is not something profound or new. Far be it for a modern congregation to heartily cling to sound doctrine and teaching in this day and age of relative thought and its strategy towards the dissolution of absolute truth. If you are among the remnant of God who has been so blessed to find a biblically sound church, peace be unto to, and happiness be granted to your soul by the Lord Jesus! But for the rest of the church, they are steeped in false doctrine taught by false “prophets.” Ignorance is not bliss here. Most of the time the church has lent itself to this rejection of truth because they have not learned how to think. People simply do not have the skills to think rightly. Ask them what the law of non-contradiction is and they could not tell you, though they follow it all day long. But their long settled ignorance affords no excuse to beginning anew even now. The saying “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks” is not true for the Christian walk. The Christian should be learning about the Lord Jesus and the doctrines of the Bible every day.

In this plethora of sound doctrine to learn throughout the Bible, there are some doctrines which are certainly more important than others. For instance, the teachings concerning the genealogical lines of the Old Testament are not as important as the New Testament doctrine of adoption. I hope you agree with me that the genealogies are very important, and should be studied and read (yet most skip them in their daily Bible reading!). There are jewels to be found there in the book of Numbers, and Chronicles, and the like. But I think you would also agree that genealogies are not as important as the doctrine of Adoption. I would certainly teach the doctrine of Adoption much earlier before I would engage the church to listen to a sermon on the genealogies listed in Numbers or Chronicles.

However, in the sea of doctrine which we are all to be familiar with throughout the Word of God, there may be a doctrine which is more important than any other; one which is the most important of all. Some may vouchsafe for the atonement. I must admit, the atonement is crucial, critical and the crux of saving grace for the believer. But, the importance of a doctrine does not simply fall on the kind of doctrine or the content of the doctrine, but also on the need of the doctrine as well. Eschatology is very important, but not as important as the need to understand the atonement. Today, I believe, as it was in the sixteenth century, the need to regain lost ground in understanding the doctrine of Justification by faith alone has come to the forefront. Most people, even those in Reformed circles, those who claim Luther as a hero, have little to say about justification. I have been a member of solid reformed churches for quite a long time. Yet, I have heard very little about justification by faith alone. I cannot remember a sermon dedicated to the subject. It has been neglected in the school setting, in the home study groups, and in the pulpit. It is a vital doctrine that we cannot do without. Its urgency dictates the difference between one going to heaven and one going to hell. It is of crucial significance and should be rightly understood by those who claim Christ as their banner. If justification is misunderstood, being the pillar upon which the church stands or falls, then what will the rest of our doctrine look like? Will it be a nominal Christianity? Would it be works righteousness? I think it would. To understand that we must be clothed in the righteousness of Christ for safety in the Day of Judgment is of vital import.

As I believe the doctrine of seeking is all but lost in our day, I also believe the doctrine of justification is slowly being forgotten. Friends, without it we are lost. Without understanding it we will not truly perceive the great wonder of the grace of God in Christ. It is my hope that in this section of the website such a glorious truth may be exalted beyond measure, that it may bring a great amount of glory to the one true and living God of the Ages. Let us think rightly about one of the most, if not the most important doctrine in the entire bible, the Doctrine of Justification by Faith alone.

C. Matthew McMahon

May 1, 2002

Free Resolved 2008 Conference Downloads

Wow, 12 sermons total! Download all of them (Click Here!) when you have the time. Listen, learn, enjoy, and grow!

Interest Insight Into the NBA-Donaghy Controversy

If you are interested, here are a few new videos and article concerning the NBA-Donaghy controversy (Click Here!). Note also the piece on the Sonics and the Suns 1993 Western Conference Finals. Not long after I started playing basketball in the early nineties, I became a crazy fan of the Seattle Supersonics, primarily because of Shawn Kemp. I remember the very day and time when this game took place and how the Sonics were down and never got a break in that game. Ever since then, whenever I see a team down by about fifteen points, I can't help but recall that very game. It's strangely and deeply imbedded in my mind. Now, I didn't know that there was such a discrepancy in the free throws shot between the two teams. I just hope it wasn't "worked" because I still have to live with the scientifically-impossible-but-still-counted 0.4 second Derek Fisher shot and the NBA's-officially-acknowledged-but-too-late-too-bad-non-foul-call for Brent Barry!

James White on Romans 9

If you have 47 minutes and 26 seconds to spare, or more properly, to invest in time to listen and learn, then check out James White's exegesis of Romans 9: Click Here! If not, then download it and listen to it when you do. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!

On Personal Bible Reading

Appreciate, enjoy, learn, be challenged, be encouraged, and be motivated from reading Dr. Mark Dever's and Dr. Albert Mohler's take on personal Bible reading.

For Dever's: Read it Here!

For Mohler's: Read it Here!

A Consequence of Independence (Spiritually Speaking)!

Here is an example of what happens when the created (i.e. man) lives without acknowledgment and fear of its Creator (i.e. God), as pointed out by James White: Read it Here!

When It Ain't Biblically Cool to be Culturally Cool

Another great read from Fide-O regarding cultural relevance at the price of biblical infidelity: Read it Here! (Note: I especially appreciate his observation on pride and it subtle relation to "coolness").

There Will Be a New Champ!

Unfortunately, the San Antonio Spurs will not repeat as the NBA champions this year. Congrats to the Los Angeles Lakers and its (true not bandwagon) fans. The Lakers will face the winner of the Eastern Conference Finals between the Boston Celtics and the Detroit Pistons. Still a Spurs fan!

P.S. I feel bad for this guy (Read it Here: Click Here!), though I commend his loyalty!

P.S.S. Now these are some cool Lakers fans (Read it Here: Click Here!).

Ways Parents Provoke (Part 8)

Here is the final post of the series along with some closing words. Please pay close attention to the Christian father's confession. Let us unceasingly pray that we may, by the grace of God, strive to do what he confessed rather than end up confessing as he confessed. Note: take this post seriously, fathers (and mothers).

8) An eighth way to provoke children is by physical and verbal abuse. Battered children are a growing tragedy today. Even Christian parents—fathers especially—sometimes overreact and spank their children much harder than necessary. Proper physical discipline is not a matter of exerting superior authority and strength, but of correcting in love and reasonableness. Children are also abused verbally. A parent can as easily overpower a child with words as with physical force. Putting him down with superior arguments or sarcasm can inflict serious harm, and provokes him to anger and resentment. It is amazing that we sometimes say things to our children that we would not think of saying to anyone else—for fear of ruining our reputation!
In closing, consider the confession of one Christian father,
My family’s all grown and the kids are all gone. But if I had to do it all over again, this is what I would do. I would love my wife more in front of my children. I would laugh with my children more—at our mistakes and our joys. I would listen more, even to the littlest child. I would be more honest about my own weaknesses, never pretending perfection. I would pray differently for my family; instead of focusing on them, I’d focus on me. I would do more things together with my children. I would encourage them more and bestow more praise. I would pay more attention to little things, like deeds and words of thoughtfulness. And then, finally, if I had to do it all over again, I would share God more intimately with my family; every ordinary thing that happened in every ordinary day I would use to direct them to God.